#AITA · 50 ASKS

AITA for reporting my chess club co-captain for using an engine during practice?

Marcus (17M) and I (17M) have co-captained our high school chess club for two years. He's one of my closest friends outside chess too. Last month his… Read more

#aita#school#chess

248 votes · 3 comments · 3 options

AITA for waiting a week to tell my roommate his gf was flirting with me

live with two guys from the meet scene, Dez (27m) is one of them, dating Mia (24f) for like 6 months. at a meet two weekends ago Mia's hanging around… Read more

#aita#roommates#cars

189 votes · 0 comments · 3 options

AITA for kicking my climbing partner out of my van mid-trip after she brought her boyfriend along uninvited?

me (31M) live full time in my van, been climbing partners with Jess (27F) for like 2 years. planned this 3 week trip to Indian Creek and Moab, split… Read more

#aita#friends#vanlife

193 votes · 3 comments · 3 options

AITA for keeping all the profit from a jacket i found on a thrift trip with my friend?

ok so my friend priya (22f) and i have been doing thrift runs together for like 8 months, we split gas both ways. we never signed anything but we… Read more

#aita#friends

265 votes · 6 comments · 3 options

AITA for telling my roommate's girlfriend he's been texting my ex behind her back

so background me (24m) live with two roommates from the meet scene, derek (26m) is one of them been living together like a year and a half. derek's… Read more

#aita#roommates

230 votes · 3 comments · 2 options

AITA for charging my friend near resale after he paid my gas to line up

i lined up for these dunks with his gas money as a favor but the price spiked crazy overnight so i figured id still make something off it, he's… Read more

#aita#friends#sneakers

124 votes · 6 comments · 3 options

AITA for firing my cousin as our wedding photog after she botched a paying client's shoot??

okay so my cousin Renata (29F) has been doing photography for like 3 years and i started throwing her client work through my planning biz bc FAMILY… Read more

#aita#family#weddings

252 votes · 12 comments · 3 options

AITA for cutting my best friend from my bridal party after she poached my client?

okay so my best friend Priya (29F) has been my day-of coordinator assistant for TWO years, unpaid experience while she built her own planning biz on… Read more

#aita#friends#weddings

223 votes · 3 comments · 3 options

AITA for blowing up my roommate's group chat over him taking my car without asking

so my roommate dev (24m) borrowed my car sunday night without asking me first, i was at a car meet till like 1am and my phone died so he couldn't… Read more

#aita#roommates#cars

37 votes · 9 comments · 3 options

AITA for making my mom wait 3 hours at the airport so I could finish a send?

ok so my mom (61F) flew out to see me in Moab, first time in almost 2 years since i live out of my van full time and she's in Ohio. i told her id… Read more

#aita#family#climbing

161 votes · 3 comments · 3 options

AITA for only paying my dad back the $400 he fronted me, not splitting the profit

so backstory, my dad (47M) doesnt really mess with sneakers but he had cash on him when a pair i needed dropped and my card got declined at checkout… Read more

#aita#family#sneakers

288 votes · 9 comments · 3 options

AITA for telling my mom she's not walking me down the aisle after the guest list thing??

okay so i (29F) plan weddings for a living, i have a whole spreadsheet system for RSVPs down to the seating chart 📋✨ so when i saw an unfamiliar… Read more

#aita#family

199 votes · 9 comments · 3 options

AITA for giving my boyfriend's sister BRUTALLY honest feedback on her cooking at dinner??

ok so context, i've been dating Dev (30M) for six months and things are going SO well, i finally got invited to a big family dinner at his sister… Read more

#aita#family

263 votes · 3 comments · 2 options

AITA for leaving my brother's rehearsal dinner mid-toast for a tornado warning

my brother Dale (36M) got married last month in Edmond. rehearsal dinner was the night before at this steakhouse his fiancée Priya (33F) picked,… Read more

#aita#family#weather

188 votes · 14 comments · 3 options

AITA for giving my brother a deadline to clear his late wife's stuff out of my garage

my brother Dale (61M) lost his wife Carol almost 2 years ago. right after she passed he asked if he could store some of her furniture and boxes in my… Read more

#aita#family#grief

276 votes · 6 comments · 3 options

AITA for locking the garden gate after my daughter-in-law threw a party there without asking?

My daughter in law Carol (41F) asked back in March if she could maybe use part of Ruth's garden for her sister's baby shower in June. I said Let me… Read more

#aita#family#gardening

275 votes · 8 comments · 3 options

AITA for calling out my roommate for straight up copying my recipe content for clout

ok so backstory, i (26F) have been posting cooking videos on my own little instagram for like 2 years now just for fun, nothing huge maybe 4k… Read more

#aita#roommates#recipes

265 votes · 9 comments · 3 options

AITA for refusing to give my sister a cut of my truck after 3 yrs of her working it?

ok so my sister Yesenia (34F) helped me start the truck three years ago, i'm 38F single mom, we had nothing then, i was flipping tacos out of a… Read more

#aita#family

273 votes · 3 comments · 3 options

AITA for finally charging my best friend for tarot readings after 6 years free?

ok so backstory... my best friend mara (34f) and i (36f) have been close since art school. i run the shop alone, readings are $45 a session, that's… Read more

#aita#friends

157 votes · 5 comments · 3 options

AITA for refusing to let my grandson drive my late wife Rosalie's Mustang to prom

my grandson Anthony (18M) has been asking for weeks to borrow my 65 Mustang for his prom. that car was Rosalie's before she passed 6 years ago, i… Read more

#aita#family#cars

253 votes · 15 comments · 3 options

AITA for telling my son he owes the family money after selling my mama's gumbo recipe to a restaurant?

okay y'all i need the real talk on this one. my son Marcus (28M) found my mama Odile's handwritten gumbo recipe in a box after she passed three years… Read more

#aita#family

263 votes · 3 comments · 3 options

AITA for refusing to give my brother-in-law half of my late husband's beehives?

my husband Carl died three years ago and left me the farm outright, house, land, all twelve hives included. his brother Roy (58m) used to help with… Read more

#aita#family#beekeeping

34 votes · 8 comments · 3 options

AITA for selling my roommate's old wheels that sat in our garage for 8 months untouched

so i live with two guys from the car meet scene, Dylan (24M) and Marcus (26M). Dylan's had this set of OEM wheels off his old civic just sitting in… Read more

#aita#roommates#cars

231 votes · 9 comments · 3 options

AITA for telling my 17yo he has to pay off his truck repair before driving it again

So my son Tyler (17M) has been driving my old Ranger since january, its technically mine still, i just let him use it to get to his job at the… Read more

#aita#family

276 votes · 9 comments · 3 options

AITA for losing my best friend's $180 hoodie she lent me for the concert

ok so my best friend mia (15f) has this vintage hoodie from her older brothers band that toured for like two weeks and its literally the only one… Read more

#aita#friends

283 votes · 3 comments · 3 options

AITA for telling my fiancé's sister she can't be in our wedding until she pays me back??

okay so context, i plan weddings for a living 💍 and two years ago i did my fiancé's sister Rennie's (28F) ENTIRE wedding for basically free bc she… Read more

#aita#family

181 votes · 0 comments · 3 options

AITA for calling out my coworker in front of clients for pocketing MY tip money??

ok so babe, I've worked at the same nail salon for going on 3 years now, me (28F) and my coworker Jenna (27F) share the same station area and cover… Read more

#aita#work

269 votes · 9 comments · 3 options

AITA for telling my sister to move out after she read my deployed husband's private letters?

my husband David (37M) has been deployed for 7 months, PCS'd overseas, and my sister Kayla (32F) moved in with me and the kids in month 2 after she… Read more

#aita#family

199 votes · 3 comments · 3 options

AITA for spilling who my best friend actually likes during truth or dare at a sleepover

ok so my best friend Maya (15f) told me at HER sleepover like 3 weeks ago that she likes Dylan (16m) and made me pinky promise not to tell literally… Read more

#aita#friends

271 votes · 2 comments · 3 options

AITA for telling a dying man's daughters what he confided to me before he passed?

I have volunteered at hospice for six years now, and I sat with a patient (81M) named Walter for the last three weeks of his life. His wife had… Read more

#aita#family#hospice

35 votes · 12 comments · 3 options

AITA for pulling my sister as maid of honor over what she wanted to say in her toast??

ok so i (32F) plan weddings for a living but this one is MINE and it went left lol. my sister Camila (29F) has been my MOH since day one, we're super… Read more

#aita#family

165 votes · 2 comments · 3 options

AITA for banning my daughter from the farm after she listed it for sale behind my back?

i'm 61, widow, i run 40 acres and 14 hives alone since my husband died three years ago. my daughter rachel (34f) has been on me for a year about how… Read more

#aita#family#farm

215 votes · 0 comments · 3 options

AITA for telling my climbing partner's girlfriend the real truth about his fall?

ok so my buddy Marcus (29M) is one of my main partners, we've climbed together like 3 years. his girlfriend Priya (28F) lost her dad to a solo… Read more

#aita#friends#climbing

288 votes · 9 comments · 3 options

AITA for exposing my sister's Venmo receipts after she begged me for 'mom's medical bill' money?

my sister (34F) texted me in April crying that our mom needed $2,200 for a copay before her cardiology follow up. i'm an ICU nurse (36F) so i know… Read more

#aita#family

272 votes · 12 comments · 3 options

AITA for pulling my $8,000 wedding gift after my granddaughter cut her Uncle from the list?

My Granddaughter Emily (24F) is getting married in June. Ruth and I set aside $8,000 for the venue, been saving since she was born near about. Two… Read more

#aita#family#weddings

37 votes · 9 comments · 3 options

AITA for outing my open mic friend for stealing my bit and posting it as his own?

me (29F) and Jordan (31M) have been doing the same mic circuit for like 2 years, we'd run new material past each other before sets bc thats just what… Read more

#aita#friends#comedy

246 votes · 2 comments · 3 options

AITA for skipping my sister's rehearsal dinner to finish a climb I'd trained a year for?

ok so my sister (29F) is getting married in Moab, i live out of my van and climb full time so this actually worked out great location wise. rehearsal… Read more

#aita#family#climbing

37 votes · 9 comments · 3 options

AITA for correcting my daughter-in-law's grammar in front of her whole family at Thanksgiving?

My son Mark (38M) married Denise (36F) six years ago and she has never much liked me, which is fine, I do not need to be liked, only respected. Last… Read more

#aita#family

281 votes · 15 comments · 3 options

AITA for canceling my best friend's wedding nails after she trashed me behind my back??

ok so my best friend Jenna (30F) is getting married in FIVE days here in Vegas and back in Feb i offered to do her nails as my gift to her, we're… Read more

#aita#friends

220 votes · 12 comments · 3 options

AITA for finally calling out an old friend over a $500 loan he never repaid in 12 years?

My friend Arthur (79M) and I have played chess together every Thursday at the public library for nearly twenty years. In 2012, when my late wife was… Read more

#aita#friends

169 votes · 6 comments · 3 options

AITA for un-inviting my sister as Theo's godmother over an instagram post?

ok so backstory, my sister Priya (31F) has always been super close with us and when Theo was born 9 weeks ago we asked her to be godmother, big honor… Read more

#aita#family#baby

194 votes · 0 comments · 3 options

AITA for telling my dying patient the truth about his prognosis after his daughter begged me not to?

I've volunteered in hospice for nine years now, sitting with patients in their last weeks so they aren't alone. Last month I was assigned to a man,… Read more

#aita#family#hospice

42 votes · 9 comments · 2 options

AITA for telling my roommate's boyfriend she's texting her ex, after I saw it on her unlocked phone?

ok so my roommate Jasmine (27F) has been with her boyfriend Tyler (28M) for almost 2 years and they just signed a lease together starting next month.… Read more

#aita#roommates

214 votes · 11 comments · 3 options

AITA for asking my future MIL to leave OUR cake tasting after who she brought?

ok so i (28F) am marrying my fiance Theo (31M) in April and i planned this whole cake tasting as like a fun little date thing for us and his mom… Read more

#aita#family

166 votes · 12 comments · 3 options

AITA for training my ex's new girlfriend for months without telling him?

ok so i (34F) am a personal trainer and i've been divorced from Dan (36M) for two years, we share custody of our son Max (6). back in October a new… Read more

#aita#family

47 votes · 0 comments · 3 options

AITA for covering my roommate's share of our track trailer without asking the other guy first

me (23m) live with tanner (24m) and dez (25m), all car meet regulars. three of us went in on a used enclosed trailer for track days, 600 each,… Read more

#aita#roommates#cars

177 votes · 0 comments · 3 options

AITA for warning my ex-wife's fiance about her drinking before they got engaged?

me and Carol (52F) split eight years ago, no bad blood really, we just grew apart after Amber (29F, my daughter) moved out. Carol's been seeing a guy… Read more

#aita#family

276 votes · 6 comments · 3 options

AITA for benching my best friend for a rookie skater before our biggest bout?

ok so backstory, me (27F) and my best friend Dana (28F) have skated together on the same derby team for FOUR YEARS, roomed at every away bout, whole… Read more

#aita#friends#rollerderby

33 votes · 13 comments · 3 options

AITA for telling a food blogger my daughter-in-law stole my mama's gumbo recipe?

okay y'all i need the real talk. my daughter in law Renee (31F) started a little catering business last year, cute idea, i even helped her get her… Read more

#aita#family

202 votes · 3 comments · 3 options

AITA for keeping the rosary a dying patient pressed into my hands against policy?

I've volunteered in hospice for 11 years, retired RN, and for the last 14 months I sat with a widower named Walter (78M) most Tuesdays and Thursdays… Read more

#aita#family#hospice

204 votes · 3 comments · 3 options