AITA for telling my climbing partner's girlfriend the real truth about his fall?
ok so my buddy Marcus (29M) is one of my main partners, we've climbed together like 3 years. his girlfriend Priya (28F) lost her dad to a solo accident years back so she made Marcus swear off soloing, only roped stuff, she's very firm on this. last month Marcus texts me at like 6am to come get him from a trailhead, dislocated his shoulder bad. turns out he'd been soloing a route we'd done roped before, alone, no one spotting, and he begged me to tell Priya it was a bouldering fall at the gym instead. i said fine bc he was in rough shape and i didn't wanna make it worse. week later Priya texts me directly, not Marcus, asking me straight up what actually happened bc the story wasn't adding up (wrong hospital, wrong day). i froze and just told her the truth, the solo, all of it. she broke up with him two days later. Marcus found out i told her and now he's not answering me, our other climbing friends are split in the group chat, some say i had to tell her bc she deserved to know especially with her dad's history, others say i broke a promise to my partner when he was literally injured and trusted me. i live in my van full time so this crew is basically my whole social circle rn and it's tense af 馃
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