#FRIENDS · 50 ASKS

AITA for banning my best friend's kids from my coop after we lost two hens?

my best friend gray (34m) and his wife dana (33f) bring their twin girls out to the cabin every summer, three years running. i live off grid so the… Read more

#aita#friends#homesteading

176 votes · 0 comments · 3 options

AIO for getting quietly hurt over a joke about my moon water

wren's known me eleven years and teases me about the shop all the time, usually i laugh it off... this time it landed different and i can't tell if… Read more

#aio#friends#witchcraft

174 votes · 4 comments · 2 options

AITA for kicking my climbing partner out of my van mid-trip after she brought her boyfriend along uninvited?

me (31M) live full time in my van, been climbing partners with Jess (27F) for like 2 years. planned this 3 week trip to Indian Creek and Moab, split… Read more

#aita#friends#vanlife

193 votes · 3 comments · 3 options

AITA for keeping all the profit from a jacket i found on a thrift trip with my friend?

ok so my friend priya (22f) and i have been doing thrift runs together for like 8 months, we split gas both ways. we never signed anything but we… Read more

#aita#friends

265 votes · 6 comments · 3 options

AITA for charging my friend near resale after he paid my gas to line up

i lined up for these dunks with his gas money as a favor but the price spiked crazy overnight so i figured id still make something off it, he's… Read more

#aita#friends#sneakers

124 votes · 6 comments · 3 options

AITA for cutting off my training partner after he shot his shot with the girl i like

so quick background me (28m) and my boy Dre (29m) been training together at my crossfit box for like 2 years, closest friend i got there. couple… Read more

#aita#friends

244 votes · 11 comments · 3 options

AITA for calling out my duo partner for bailing on our matching tattoo after i already got mine?

me (20m) and my duo partner marcus (21m) have queued together for like 2 years, real life friends outside game too. we always joked about getting a… Read more

#aita#friends

168 votes · 18 comments · 3 options

AITA for cutting my best friend from my bridal party after she poached my client?

okay so my best friend Priya (29F) has been my day-of coordinator assistant for TWO years, unpaid experience while she built her own planning biz on… Read more

#aita#friends#weddings

223 votes · 3 comments · 3 options

AITA for calling out my best friend for secretly training with another coach behind my back

so my boy dante (30m) and me been tight since college, i started coaching him free for like 6 months getting him ready for his first powerlifting… Read more

#aita#friends

168 votes · 9 comments · 3 options

AIO for being annoyed my climbing partner keeps making van life jokes to new people

jake's a good partner and the group is chill but this is like the third meetup he's cracked the same joke in front of new faces. starting to feel… Read more

#aio#friends#climbing

164 votes · 3 comments · 2 options

AITA for making a tier list ranking my friends' boyfriends at lunch and someone leaked it

okay so at lunch me and jaylen (15f) were bored and started making a tier list of every guy our friends are dating like S tier A tier all the way… Read more

#aita#friends

35 votes · 6 comments · 3 options

AITA for cutting my best friend out of resell profit after he never paid his half up front

me (17M) and my best friend marcus (17M) planned to cop 3 pairs of the travis scott dunks together, splitting the $360 cost 50/50 since he doesnt… Read more

#aita#friends#sneakers

277 votes · 8 comments · 3 options

AIO for being hurt i wasn't invited to a brunch and got called sensitive about it

Carol and I have known each other for years through book club, and this exchange left me stewing over my tea for far longer than I'd like to admit,… Read more

#aio#friends#bookclub

93 votes · 10 comments · 2 options

Is it tacky to re-gift a plant cutting someone gave you back to them, grown bigger?

Bill's cousin gave me a little snip of her jade plant two summers ago and mine has just gone wild and gorgeous! I was thinking of potting up a piece… Read more

#friends#gardening

137 votes · 9 comments · 2 options

AITA for finally charging my best friend for tarot readings after 6 years free?

ok so backstory... my best friend mara (34f) and i (36f) have been close since art school. i run the shop alone, readings are $45 a session, that's… Read more

#aita#friends

157 votes · 5 comments · 3 options

AIO for being annoyed my friend assumed i'd skip a trip and didn't ask

found out after the fact that a friend group went camping and didnt tell me because they figured id be hard to reach. maybe im reading too much into… Read more

#aio#friends#offgrid

174 votes · 12 comments · 2 options

AITA for losing my best friend's $180 hoodie she lent me for the concert

ok so my best friend mia (15f) has this vintage hoodie from her older brothers band that toured for like two weeks and its literally the only one… Read more

#aita#friends

283 votes · 3 comments · 3 options

AIO for getting annoyed at a friend's joke about my sleep schedule

i just came off a 12 hour shift where a guy coded twice, forgive me for not finding the vampire jokes hilarious at hour zero of being conscious.

#aio#friends#nursing

171 votes · 0 comments · 2 options

AIO for being kinda hurt my friends went to the mall without me

literally found out through a story post that they all hung out without me today and jules is acting like im insane for caring even a little bit i… Read more

#aio#friends#hangout

90 votes · 3 comments · 2 options

AITA for telling my best friend she has to pay me for rides like a regular customer now

ok so my best friend maya (29f) has been texting me for rides for like 8 months straight. not like a real emergency every time, just cause she knows… Read more

#aita#friends

47 votes · 6 comments · 3 options

AITA for spilling who my best friend actually likes during truth or dare at a sleepover

ok so my best friend Maya (15f) told me at HER sleepover like 3 weeks ago that she likes Dylan (16m) and made me pinky promise not to tell literally… Read more

#aita#friends

271 votes · 2 comments · 3 options

AIO for getting quietly hurt when my friend joked my tarot readings aren't 'real'

wren's known me for years, knows the shop is my whole life, and still it stung more than i expected... maybe mercury retrograde is just making me… Read more

#aio#friends#tarot

126 votes · 3 comments · 2 options

AITA for telling my captain my teammate's DUI after she begged me to keep it quiet?

ok so my teammate Dana (28F) and me (26F) have skated together like 2 years, she's usually the one driving our team van to away bouts bc she's got… Read more

#aita#friends#derby

244 votes · 12 comments · 3 options

AIO for getting annoyed at a joke about being married to my bees

carol means well most days but she keeps circling back to this line ever since Roy passed. it landed different this time and i dont know if im just… Read more

#aio#friends#widow

36 votes · 8 comments · 2 options

AITA for refusing to peek at my best friend's mom's chart when she was rushed into my hospital?

i work night shift ICU downtown, this is not new info if you follow me. my best friend Tasha (34F) has a mom, Denise (61F), who's had COPD for years.… Read more

#aita#friends#hospital

281 votes · 12 comments · 3 options

AIO for getting annoyed my friend keeps joking i'm turning into a dog hermit

Reese has been ribbing me for months about never leaving the kennel. I know its half a joke but it landed different this time and now im wondering if… Read more

#aio#friends

88 votes · 6 comments · 2 options

AITA for telling my best friend's boyfriend at dinner he might be having a heart attack?

So my best friend Adaeze (33F) invited me to her boyfriend Marcus's birthday dinner last Saturday. Halfway through appetizers he's rubbing his left… Read more

#aita#friends

209 votes · 18 comments · 3 options

AIO for getting annoyed at being called a 'vinyl snob' as a joke

dex is a good friend and this is clearly teasing not malice but it's like the third time this month he's used that phrase and it's starting to bug me… Read more

#aio#friends#music

178 votes · 5 comments · 2 options

AIO for getting annoyed my climbing partner keeps joking about my van life

Deacon thinks hes hilarious every time we load up gear and he starts in on the van jokes again. i can take a joke but its every single trip now and… Read more

#aio#friends#vanlife

164 votes · 10 comments · 2 options

AITA for telling my climbing partner's girlfriend the real truth about his fall?

ok so my buddy Marcus (29M) is one of my main partners, we've climbed together like 3 years. his girlfriend Priya (28F) lost her dad to a solo… Read more

#aita#friends#climbing

288 votes · 9 comments · 3 options

AITA for kicking my best friend off my streaming setup after his channel blew up using it?

My best friend Mike (29M) crashed on my couch for about six weeks after his breakup, no rent, just splitting groceries. I said sure, use my rig… Read more

#aita#friends#gaming

239 votes · 0 comments · 3 options

AITA for outing my open mic friend for stealing my bit and posting it as his own?

me (29F) and Jordan (31M) have been doing the same mic circuit for like 2 years, we'd run new material past each other before sets bc thats just what… Read more

#aita#friends#comedy

246 votes · 2 comments · 3 options

my club brother tattooed MY dog on his arm and didn't even ask me first

Deke (52M), known him 12 years, got a tattoo of my dog Diesel on his forearm last week. found out when he peeled the bandage at the clubhouse BBQ and… Read more

#friends

224 votes · 15 comments · 2 options

AITA for canceling my best friend's wedding nails after she trashed me behind my back??

ok so my best friend Jenna (30F) is getting married in FIVE days here in Vegas and back in Feb i offered to do her nails as my gift to her, we're… Read more

#aita#friends

220 votes · 12 comments · 3 options

AIO for feeling hurt about being left out of choir lunches twice

I do not need to be included in everything, the Lord knows I have my own quiet joys, but this is the second time this month I have found out about a… Read more

#aio#friends#faith

73 votes · 6 comments · 2 options

AITA for finally calling out an old friend over a $500 loan he never repaid in 12 years?

My friend Arthur (79M) and I have played chess together every Thursday at the public library for nearly twenty years. In 2012, when my late wife was… Read more

#aita#friends

169 votes · 6 comments · 3 options

AITA for outing my bowling teammate's sandbagging in the league group chat?

i (58M) run our Tuesday night league at Diamond Lanes, been doing it 11 years. my teammate Ron (56M) and i have bowled together on and off for like… Read more

#aita#friends#bowling

168 votes · 9 comments · 2 options

AIO for being annoyed my friend assumed I'd say no instead of just asking

Karen didn't invite me to a last-minute girls' night because she 'figured' I was too busy, which, fair, but I still would've liked the chance to say… Read more

#aio#friends

136 votes · 3 comments · 2 options

AIO for being kind of hurt my friend stopped inviting me to stuff bc of my schedule

been driving nights so long people just assume im unavailable now and stopped asking, found out about a taco night after the fact and it stung more… Read more

#aio#friends

48 votes · 11 comments · 2 options

AITA for benching my best friend for a rookie skater before our biggest bout?

ok so backstory, me (27F) and my best friend Dana (28F) have skated together on the same derby team for FOUR YEARS, roomed at every away bout, whole… Read more

#aita#friends#rollerderby

33 votes · 13 comments · 3 options

AIO for being annoyed my friend clowned my stream viewer count

Marcus has been ribbing me about my stream numbers for a while now, this time it just landed wrong. Might be an overreaction, idk, curious what you… Read more

#aio#friends#gaming

157 votes · 3 comments · 2 options

AITA for planting fake info in the group chat to catch which friend was leaking to my ex?

me (31M) broke up with my ex Dana back in march. for a month after, she kept bringing up stuff i only said in our friend group chat, word for word.… Read more

#aita#friends#privacy

258 votes · 8 comments · 3 options

AITA for freezing out my best friend for dating my ex a month after we broke up

me (22f) and my ex jordan (23m) broke up in january after two years, it wasnt ugly, we just drifted once he moved for his internship. my best friend… Read more

#aita#friends#exes

209 votes · 9 comments · 3 options

AITA for calling out my chase partner of 6 years after he sold my tornado shot as his own

been chasing with Dale (52M) for six years, we split gas and gear costs 50/50 every trip. may 3rd we caught a stovepipe tornado outside Watonga, i… Read more

#aita#friends#stormchasing

234 votes · 19 comments · 3 options

AITA for lying to my best friend about how much our sneaker flip actually sold for

me (16m) and my best friend marcus (16m) been resellin together since freshman year, we split cop money and profit 50/50 whenever we go in on a pair… Read more

#aita#friends#sneakers

213 votes · 5 comments · 3 options

AITA for freezing out my best friend after she lost my dead grandma's tarot deck?

ok so backstory... my grandma passed three years ago and left me her original 1970s rider waite deck, she used to read for half of salem with it,… Read more

#aita#friends#tarot

243 votes · 12 comments · 3 options

discord call or facetime for group hangs literally cant decide

#gaming#friends

107 votes · 8 comments · 2 options

aita for telling my best friends secret to get her unfollowed by her crush spam acc

ok so my best friend mia shes 15 too told me in confidence like two weeks ago that she has a whole finsta she uses to like watch her crush and his ex… Read more

#friends

280 votes · 4 comments · 4 options

aita for blasting my best friend in the groupchat for ditching me at a concert

ok so me and mia (15f) have been best friends since like fourth grade and we saved up for MONTHS to go see our fav band bc tickets were literally 90… Read more

#friends

267 votes · 8 comments · 4 options

AITA for leaving after the group showed up 50 minutes late to a reservation I begged for?

6 top, 7:30, a place with a 2 month list. i called in a favor with a friend who works there. i sat alone. they were in the group chat the whole time.… Read more

#friends#food

300 votes · 5 comments · 4 options