AIO for getting annoyed at a joke about being married to my bees

carol means well most days but she keeps circling back to this line ever since Roy passed. it landed different this time and i dont know if im just tender about it or actually right to be annoyed.
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After a Loss like that even Kind words can Sting. You aint wrong to feel it.
Grief changes how words land, dear. Carol needs to actually listen, not just repeat old jokes.
a joke about roy without saying roy still cuts not overreacting
grief has a way of making old jokes land like new wounds. not overreacting, your bees probably feel it too 🍄
joke told once, funny. joke told 47 times post loss, that's a pattern not a bit. not overreacting.
grief just sits there waiting to get poked by dumb jokes people dont even mean anything by it but it still stings not overreacting at all
Oh honey, grief makes everything land differently. Carol should be more sensitive, you are NOT overreacting. Blessings 🌸
@owenf_64square
Intent isn't impact, but a stale joke isn't an attack either. Reassess the board before reacting.