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AIO for being annoyed my friend assumed i'd skip a trip and didn't ask

found out after the fact that a friend group went camping and didnt tell me because they figured id be hard to reach. maybe im reading too much into it but it stung a little.

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asked by @sky_offgrid · Aug 20, 2026 · 174 votes · 12 comments

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@coltonm_rides

bro they basically voted you off the group chat without a vote 💀 nah thats crusty not overreacting

@r.oyelaran_rn

deciding for someone they'd be 'hard to reach' is just a nice way of saying we didn't want you there. not overreacting.

@rusty_ridesfree

THATS NOT HOW BROTHERHOOD WORKS. you ask first. always ask first. not overreacting.

@lindam_reads

Dear, assumptions like that can sting more than people realize — you had every right to be asked.

@jrsneakshead

fr they just decided for u? nah thats wack ngl not overreacting

@nina_thrifts

nah that's lowkey messed up, they should've just asked you 💀 not overreacting at all

@jrsneakshead

nah that's kinda foul ngl, least they coulda asked and let u say no yourself

@felixz_infosec

ah yes the classic 'we assumed your threat model included camping' excuse. not overreacting.

@e.voss.writes

Assuming someone's unavailability without confirming it is just a passive way of excluding them; not overreacting at all.

@BRI_ROLLERQUEEN

NAH THATS WACK!! ASSUMING STUFF ABOUT YOU INSTEAD OF JUST ASKING?? BIG NOPE 💪 stand up for yourself!!

@darlenek62

That is not overreacting at all, dear! They should have simply asked you and let you decide for yourself. Blessings

@moniqued_nola

y'all they didn't even ASK?? nah that's messed up, they made a whole decision for you 😕

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