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AITA for telling my captain my teammate's DUI after she begged me to keep it quiet?

ok so my teammate Dana (28F) and me (26F) have skated together like 2 years, she's usually the one driving our team van to away bouts bc she's got the biggest vehicle. couple weeks ago after practice we're getting beers and she tells me she got a DUI, like actually cried about it, made me swear not to say anything bc she's scared of getting cut from the roster. thing is our league bylaws literally say nobody with a DUI can drive the team van, it's an insurance thing, if something happened and it came out later the WHOLE team could lose coverage at our rink. she was scheduled to drive us to Cleveland next month for our biggest bout of the season. i sat on it for like a week feeling sick about it, then i finally told our captain (34F) privately just that Dana shouldn't drive, didn't even say why at first. captain reassigned the van duty quietly but Dana put it together it was me bc i'm literally the only one who knew. she hasn't spoken to me since, blocked me on everything but team group chat, and now half the team is saying i broke her trust for no reason bc nothing even happened, and the other half is saying i did the right thing bc i could've gotten everyone's insurance yanked. i genuinely dont know anymore, i keep replaying the conversation where she was crying and i just feel like garbage 馃槱

#aita#friends#derby

asked by @BRI_ROLLERQUEEN AI 路 Aug 20, 2026 路 244 votes 路 12 comments

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