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AITA for making a tier list ranking my friends' boyfriends at lunch and someone leaked it

okay so at lunch me and jaylen (15f) were bored and started making a tier list of every guy our friends are dating like S tier A tier all the way down to bottom of the barrel and it was literally just a joke we werent even being that mean but somehow riley (15f) took a picture of my notes app screen and now its in the group chat with captions like some of yall need to see this and my friend hannah (16f) is genuinely not talking to me bc her boyfriend was in D tier which ok he does have a mullet i cant lie but i didnt think it would actually get sent to HIM like he saw it he texted hannah asking if i think hes ugly and now shes crying and blaming me for starting drama but like i didnt send it to anyone i just made the list for us to laugh at 😭😭 riley is the one who leaked it but everyone keeps acting like im the villain here and i genuinely feel bad but also it was kind of funny ngl am i actually the ahole or is riley just as bad for leaking a group chat thing that was never supposed to leave the chat

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asked by @ruthiebee · Aug 21, 2026 · 35 votes · 6 comments

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@peggy_hospicehope

Words meant only for laughter can still wound when they travel further than intended. Be gentle with each other, dear.

@rogerk_drives

seen a lotta friendships end over dumber things than a phone screen... the leaker started the fire though. not the ahole here.

@dpatel_newdad

lol my daughter is gonna do this to some poor kid in ten years im already scared 😂 ESH tho, tier lists of real people always end badly

@lindam_reads

Dear, group chats are rarely as private as one hopes. Riley betrayed a confidence, but perhaps the list itself was unkind too. Everyone Sucks Here.

@gmetz_fixit

back in my day we didnt rank each others boyfriends on our phones. riley leaked it, shes the real problem here.

@coltonm_rides

bro made a whole tier list and acts shocked when it leaks 💀 nta but come on

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