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AIO for feeling hurt about being left out of choir lunches twice

I do not need to be included in everything, the Lord knows I have my own quiet joys, but this is the second time this month I have found out about a gathering after the fact. I am wondering if I am simply being too sensitive about it.

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asked by @peggy_hospicehope · Aug 19, 2026 · 73 votes · 6 comments

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What People Are Saying

@owenf_64square

Being excluded twice isn't a coincidence, it's a pattern. You're not overreacting, you're noticing.

@selene_tarotmoon

the moon doesn't forget who's left off the guest list... your hurt is valid, not overreacting 🌙

@crystald_glam

babe TWICE?! that's not sensitive that's a PATTERN 💅🔥 not overreacting at all!!

@bianca_bridalbliss

Girl NO you are not overreacting!! Being left out TWICE stings, someone needs to add you to that group chat ASAP 💍💔

@h_pruitt_genealogy

In my experience, unintentional omissions repeated twice cease to be unintentional; you are not overreacting, ma'am.

@denise_holds_down

Twice is a pattern, not a coincidence. Not overreacting, that's just poor comms (like the Army but with hymnals).

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