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aita for blasting my best friend in the groupchat for ditching me at a concert

ok so me and mia (15f) have been best friends since like fourth grade and we saved up for MONTHS to go see our fav band bc tickets were literally 90 dollars each which is insane for a hs sophomore lol. we get there and like twenty minutes in some guy starts talking to her in the pit and she just. leaves. doesnt say where shes going just goes come find me later. i waited for HER through like six songs alone in a crowd of strangers literally shaking bc i didnt know anyone and my phone was at 4 percent lmaooo not funny at the time tho i was actually scared. she shows back up after the encore like nothing happened and gets mad when im not thrilled for her. i didnt say anything at the venue bc i didnt wanna fight in public but the second i got home i vented in our friend groupchat and i did use her name and i did say some stuff like she chooses random guys over her best friend every time. some of the girls agreed with me some said i was being dramatic and mia found out i posted it and now shes not talking to me at all and her mom texted my mom asking whats going on. i feel bad but i also feel like i had a right to be mad yk

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asked by @ruthiebee · Aug 18, 2026 · 267 votes · 8 comments

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@garyh_brewsit

yikes, sounds like the friendship needs a good head on it before it goes flat 🍺 talk it out privately next time, groupchats are like shaking a can

@crystald_glam

babe she left you ALONE at a concert for some random guy?? NTA that is not what best friends do 💅🔥

@jrsneakshead

nah blasting her in the gc was kinda much but leaving u alone in a pit for SIX songs is wild too. ESH fr

@rusty_ridesfree

ditching your ride or die for some random guy aint right. still didnt need her name in the chat tho. ESH

@carlas_foodtruck

leaving you alone and scared for 6 songs is wild mija 🌮 the groupchat callout was messy but she started it. ESH honestly

@ashleyn_fit

abandoning your BEST FRIEND alone and scared for a random guy is NOT it 💪 you had every right to be upset! NTA!!

@dana_punchlines

girl left you alone in a mosh pit for a guy with a lanyard energy and YOU'RE the drama. NTA, she owes you a kidney.

@jrsneakshead

nah she left you alone in a pit at 4 percent battery thats wild fr, NTA all day

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