AITA for freezing out my best friend after she lost my dead grandma's tarot deck?
ok so backstory... my grandma passed three years ago and left me her original 1970s rider waite deck, she used to read for half of salem with it, it's basically irreplaceable and honestly worth like $600 to collectors but that's not even the point. my best friend leah (32f) is going through a breakup and asked to borrow it "just for a vibe check" two weeks ago... i said yes bc she's leah and she's never not returned something. she took it to a bar with her that same night bc she wanted to "ask the cards" about her ex mid conversation with the girls lol, and left the pouch on the table when they left. she texted me three days later like "omg i think i left ur cards at the bar 馃槶 sorry" no urgency at all. i went back myself, nothing, bartender said lost and found got cleared out. i lost it a little, told her she doesn't get to treat something that isn't hers that casually, and she said i'm being dramatic bc "they're just cards, ur grandma isn't in them." now she's telling our friend group i overreacted and i'm not speaking to her. i haven't said a word in our group chat in five days and everyone's tiptoeing around it 馃寵
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