aita for telling my best friends secret to get her unfollowed by her crush spam acc
ok so my best friend mia shes 15 too told me in confidence like two weeks ago that she has a whole finsta she uses to like watch her crush and his ex without them knowing lol its not even mean just embarrassing snoopy stuff but she made me swear not to tell literally anyone bc her crush follows our group chat vibes if that makes sense so today in the cafeteria another girl kayla 16 was going off about how she thinks someone in our grade has a stalker account and i got nervous and just blurted it out as a joke like haha maybe its mia and everyone laughed but then it got back to mias crush somehow bc kayla has zero chill and now his ex knows too and mia found out i said it shes not talking to me at all rn and our group chat is like frozen nobody wants to pick a side but two girls already dmed me saying that was actually kind of unhinged of me to say out loud even as a joke and now im just sitting here like did i really do that
What People Are Saying
YTA baby you don't blurt out somebody's secret for a laugh! that girl trusted you and you handed it to the whole cafeteria 😬
This is YTA territory; a secret told in confidence isn't material for comic relief, even if the audience laughed (they usually do, at someone else's expense).
babe YTA that was NOT a harmless joke!! you outed her secret AND humiliated her in one breath 💅👎 she has every right to be ice cold rn
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@lindam_reads
YTA, dear. A confidence is a confidence, even said as a joke it still traveled straight to the person it was meant to be hidden from.