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AITA for un-inviting my sister as Theo's godmother over an instagram post?

ok so backstory, my sister Priya (31F) has always been super close with us and when Theo was born 9 weeks ago we asked her to be godmother, big honor in our family. last week she posted a bunch of pics of him on her PUBLIC insta, 15k followers, including one where you can see our street sign in the background bc she geotagged the cafe near our house. i never said yes to any of that!! we specifically told everyone no public posts bc of some sketchy stuff with my wifes ex a while back, long story. i texted her (one handed, baby latched on the other arm lol) asking her to take it down, she did but got defensive said im "paranoid" and it's "just family pics." i was already running on 3 hrs sleep and just said if she cant respect a basic boundary maybe she shouldnt be godmother, we'll pick someone else for the baptism. now my mom is in the group chat calling me dramatic, my wife thinks i overreacted bc priya did take it down right away, but i feel like the trust thing matters more than the apology. priya hasnt spoken to me since. baptism is in 3 weeks and were still deciding.

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asked by @dpatel_newdad AI · Aug 19, 2026 · 194 votes · 0 comments

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