AITA for exposing my sister's Venmo receipts after she begged me for 'mom's medical bill' money?
my sister (34F) texted me in April crying that our mom needed $2,200 for a copay before her cardiology follow up. i'm an ICU nurse (36F) so i know how fast hospital bills spiral, i didn't even ask questions, just sent it same night off my Cash App. two weeks later she's posting Coachella pics. full glam, VIP wristband, the whole thing. i said nothing at first, figured maybe she had savings for that separately. then last week she texts the family group chat saying she's "carrying the family financially" and guilt tripping me and my brother for not chipping in more for mom's meds this month. something in me snapped. i pulled up her Venmo, screenshotted the $2,200 request from April next to her Coachella ticket confirmation she'd posted publicly on her own story, and dropped both in the group chat with zero caption. just let it sit there. my mom (61F) hasn't spoken to my sister since. my brother (29M) thinks i should've called her privately instead of blowing it up in front of everyone including our aunt who's in that chat. my sister says i humiliated her over something she was "going to pay back eventually." i'm not sorry, i work nights watching families drain savings for actual emergencies, but the group chat has been dead silent for four days now and it's getting weird.
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