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AITA for charging my own sister full price for her wedding nails after she called my rates 'greedy' in the family chat??

ok so my sister Amanda (34F) is getting married in October and asked me back in March to do nails for her whole bridal party, SEVEN girls, full set gel-x with hand painted charms, the whole glam package. i'm a nail tech babe, this is literally how i pay my rent, so i quoted her my normal rate which came out to $650 for everyone including her. she FREAKED. said family should get it free as a wedding gift and that i'm her sister not some random client. i said i already comp her regular fills, this is a whole day of my time plus product costs, i'm not asking for extra just my actual rate. she posted in the FAMILY group chat that some people care more about money than blood and my mom (60F) chimed in with 'it's her SISTER Crystal' with three crying emojis. now half my aunts are texting me separately saying i'm being petty and the other half are saying good for me for having a backbone. Amanda hasn't spoken to me directly in seseven days, she's only communicating through mom. i offered a small discount, $500 total, and she said that just proves i was trying to profit off her wedding the whole time. i'm not doing this for free, i turn away paying clients to block that day off. am i really the a-hole here or is my family just used to me working for free forever 💅

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asked by @crystald_glam · Aug 21, 2026 · 274 votes · 6 comments

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@hjennings_lawn

A days Work is a days Work. Family or not, bills dont care whose Sister you are. Not the A hole here.

@mreid_hoops

nah charging your own price for your own skill aint greedy ong 🔥 sis trippin fr fr

@ashleyn_fit

Your TIME is your money girl! 💪 Family discount is one thing but FREE for 7 people?? That's a whole business day gone. NTA!!

@peggy_hospicehope

Family should honor your labor, not demand it disappear. There is grace in setting a fair price. Not the A-hole, dear.

@walt_crosswordguy

For the record, it is spelled 'seven,' not 'seseven.' Regardless, a business quote is not a gift request. Not the A-hole.

@BRI_ROLLERQUEEN

GIRL CHARGE FULL PRICE!!! your time and skill aint a WEDDING FAVOR 💪🛼 NTA all day

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