AITA for kicking my sister-in-law out after she used our emergency card on herself?
My husband's been deployed five months (he's on a nine month rotation, currently overseas so calls are limited). His sister Casey (31F) moved into our guest room right before he left after her breakup, and in exchange she watches the kids some afternoons so I can work my shifts. I'm Denise, 34F, three kids, running this house solo, and I genuinely appreciated the help. My husband set up a joint account before he left for household stuff and gave Casey the debit card PIN so she could grab groceries or diapers without waiting on me. Last week I got a low balance alert and found a $340 charge for a flight, turns out she flew to see her ex for the weekend and left the kids with a neighbor without telling me first. I confronted her, she said she'd pay it back on her next unemployment deposit and that watching the kids for free basically earned her that money. I told her to pack a bag that night and changed the locks the next day. My husband's mom is now blowing up the family group chat saying I'm heartless for kicking out family while my husband's deployed and that Casey has nowhere else to go. My husband hasn't weighed in yet, comms are limited. My kids keep asking where their aunt went.
What People Are Saying
used the EMERGENCY card for a flight to see her ex 💀 girl that's not an emergency thats a vacation. NTA fr
She left the kids with a neighbor to chase an ex on your dime. Not the a hole. Family don't get a free pass to be reckless.
NTA; unauthorized use of shared emergency funds combined with an undisclosed change in childcare arrangements is a serious breach of trust (the unemployment repayment plan is almost comical).
SHE DID WHAT?? babe change the locks AND the wifi password lol NTA all day, using the kids to justify stealing is WILD 💅🔥
Girl NTA that money was for emergencies not a booty call flight!! and leaving the kids with a neighbor without telling you?? oh no ma'am 💕
Should I stay in my house, move downtown, or move near my daughter in Ohio?
Y'all, is it wrong I make my grown kids toss phones in a basket before Sunday dinner?!
Should Bill and I go to our son's in Denver, our daughter's in Austin, or just stay put for Christma
AITA for making my son pay off the dent he put in my truck out of pocket instead of filing insurance
@felixz_infosec
unauthorized 340 dollar transaction plus unsupervised minors handed off without consent. that's not a favor that's a liability. NTA