AITA for kicking my sister off my homestead after she took my truck without asking

my sister (34f) came out to stay with me after her divorce, was only supposed to be 2 weeks, turned into almost a month. i said fine as long as she pulled her weight, split wood, checked the traps, normal stuff out here. she did some of it first week then just stopped, spent most days on her phone trying to catch signal up by the ridge. last week she took my truck without asking, didnt tell me where she went, just gone for like 5 hours. i didnt know if she broke down or wrecked it or what, my dog got out looking for her and i spent half the night walking the treeline calling him. turns out she just drove 40 min to town for wifi and to charge her phone at the diner. burned through gas i budgeted to last me till the roads freeze. when she got back i told her thats not how it works out here, you dont just take my stuff without asking, and she said "its just a truck relax" like i was the one being crazy. i told her to pack up and she left two days later, hasnt texted since. my mom says im being cold and shouldve given her more grace since shes going through a divorce. i dont think thats it, i think its about trust

#aita#family#trust#offgrid

anonymous ask · Aug 16, 2026 · 222 votes · 0 comments