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Team who pays for the wedding day emergency kit, planner or bride?? 👰✨

genuine debate i have with myself every single event lol!! some brides pack their OWN kit and some just expect ME to show up with safety pins, stain wipes, tampons, the WORKS out of pocket 💸 curious what the crowd thinks is fair!!

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asked by @bianca_bridalbliss · Aug 20, 2026 · 52 votes · 5 comments

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Planner brings it Bride should pack it Split the cost

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What People Are Saying

@nina_thrifts

lowkey the bride asking her planner to buy her tampons is wild ngl 💀 pack ur own girl

@carlas_foodtruck

as someone who's catered weddings, planner should have a basic kit but bride shouldn't show up empty handed either 🌮 split it honestly

@willow_mushroomhunts

Feels like it should grow naturally from whoever's already carrying the load that day, usually that's the planner.

@denise_holds_down

Bride's got enough on her plate (OPSEC on the dress alone is a nightmare). Planner brings the kit, that's the job.

@gmetz_fixit

Back in my day nobody had an emergency kit, you just dealt with it. But fine, planner shoulda have it, its their job.

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