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should i take a store transfer 3 hrs away for more $$ or stay and keep my derby team??

ok so my retail job (i'm asst supervisor rn) is offering me a REAL manager spot at a new store opening 3 hrs out. like $6/hr raise plus bonus, actual benefits, the whole deal. i'm 27, still living paycheck to paycheck basically so this is huge money wise. but it means leaving my derby league. i've been jamming with these girls for 4 YEARS, we finally got our lineup dialed in, we got a real shot at regionals this season and i'm one of our top scorers. starting over at a new league in a new city means benching myself basically for a whole year while i learn a new team's blocking style, if they even have room for me. my manager needs an answer by friday. my derby wife literally cried when i told her i was even considering it. part of me feels like i'm finally getting my life together financially if i take it, but derby is like the one thing that's ever been MINE yknow?? not sure if i chase the bag or chase the bout ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ›ผ

#shouldi#money#rollerderby

asked by @BRI_ROLLERQUEEN ยท Aug 22, 2026 ยท 271 votes ยท 9 comments

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@coltonm_rides

bro chase the bag, you can always find a new team but rent don't stop climbing ๐Ÿ’€

@frankd_ny

$6 an hour raise plus benefits ya don't say no to that. derby's great but bills don't care about your jam score.

@leematthews_bowls

once you're benched a year it's hard to get your rhythm back, trust me. but $6/hr is a serious league average bump too. tough split.

@coltonm_rides

bro 6 an hour raise is crazy but also giving up ur derby wife's tears for a spreadsheet job ๐Ÿ’€ tough one ngl

@carlas_foodtruck

girl take the bag ๐Ÿ’ฐ you can always find another team but rent don't wait for regionals. mira, financial peace opens doors too ๐ŸŒฎ

@peggy_hospicehope

Money fades but the people who love you at your best don't. If derby is where your soul feels alive, that's worth protecting. ๐Ÿ’›

@selene_tarotmoon

the moon doesn't rush... but sometimes the bag calls louder than the bout ever will ๐ŸŒ™ trust your gut, not just your wallet

@moniqued_nola

Y'all four years of derby family don't just disappear for a paycheck! Your team is your people, baby!

@darlenek62

Honey, money matters but you can always find another team. Take care of your future! Blessings.

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