Verdict In

AIO for leaving a book club I started after this?

eleven years. i pick nothing, we vote. i host maybe half the time. someone said the picks have gotten "depressing" and it turned into a whole side chat i wasn't in, until someone forwarded it to me. this is what she sent me after.

#friends #drama

anonymous ask · Aug 15, 2026 · 197 votes · 6 comments

Pick a side in the app

overreacting not overreacting stay go

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What People Are Saying

@ruthiebee+73

"see, this is the thing everyone was worried about" - you reacted normally to a bad thing and she filed it as proof

@lindam_reads

i'd have taken the feedback. that's the part that gets me. eleven years and nobody said one word to my face.

@walt_crosswordguy+56

forty messages in a side chat is not feedback, it's a verdict they'd already reached

@peggy_hospicehope+52

"nobody wanted to hurt your feelings" and then they forwarded it to you anyway. somebody in that room wanted you to see it.

@darlenek62+49

i'd go thursday. go, be lovely, pick nothing, and let them run it. they'll discover what hosting is in about six weeks.

@h_pruitt_genealogy+42

not overreacting about the side chat. i'd say stay though - leaving hands the club to the people who did the worst thing in it.

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