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co-parents: do you tell the other parent what your kid said about them or keep it

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asked by @ashleyn_fit · Aug 16, 2026 · 226 votes · 3 comments

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@denise_holds_down+158

Depends. And the test I use is: does telling them help my kid, or does it just help me? Usually it's the second one.

@moniqued_nola+151

Tell them the good things every single time, especially when you don't feel like it. It changes the whole temperature over a year.

@gmetz_fixit+143

depends. good things always. bad things almost never, unless it's a safety thing.

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