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should i take a job transfer for 15k more or stay for my gym fam and her

so my job (i work sales, boring i know) offered me a transfer to austin starting in march 15k raise no question about it money wise it makes sense fr fr but it means leaving my gym here where ive been for 3 years my coach my lifting crew all of it and also the girl im seeing from my box (28f) we not official but its getting real ngl like she cooked for me last week and i met her sister ausitn got good gyms too i know that but its not the same starting over finding a new crew new coach new everything at 26 while also maybe losing whatever this is with her before it even become something my boy says take the bag relationships come and go but money moves dont wait on you my mom saying dont run from something good just cause its scary ong i been going back and forth for 2 weeks and i gotta give them an answer friday

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asked by @mreid_hoops · Aug 20, 2026 · 156 votes · 6 comments

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@baileyf_grows

new soil isnt bad... sometimes you gotta uproot to actually grow bigger. austin has gyms and maybe even better ones🌱

@selene_tarotmoon

the moon doesnt rush what could bloom slowly... but money doesnt wait for the moon either. follow what feels heavy in your chest, not your wallet 🌙

@ruthiebee

bro 15k is not enough to leave a girl who COOKED for you and met the sister literally thats basically married take the job in your dreams 😭😭

@dana_punchlines

"not official but she met my sister" sir that IS official, austin's not gonna cook for you like that (unless its bbq)

@coltonm_rides

bro 15k for a situationship thats not even official 💀 take the bag

@frankd_ny

take the money kid. relationships that aint official yet dont pay rent. 15k is 15k ya can build a new crew.

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