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Meet his family for the first time or keep our hard-to-get restaurant reservation??

ok so quick backstory, me and my boyfriend (29M) have been together 6 months, still in the giddy new relationship stage where everything is SO cute lol. his whole extended family does this big yearly reunion thing at his aunt's lake house and he just asked me to come this year, which is a HUGE deal bc he's never brought a girl before according to his sister who definitely was not supposed to tell me that 馃槀馃憖 BUT. same exact weekend is the reservation i have been HUNTING for like 3 months at this tiny tasting menu place that only takes 12 people a night, $85 a head, non refundable, no waitlist reschedule, i had to set alarms to snag it. it was supposed to be OUR thing, i was gonna surprise him with it as a 6 month anniversary date lol the timing is just brutal he says its fine either way and not to stress but i can tell meeting the fam is the bigger deal energy here. if i skip the reunion do i look like im not serious?? if i cancel the dinner do i lose my $170 deposit AND the once in a lifetime table 馃崪馃尶 i genuinely cannot decide someone please just tell me what to do

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anonymous ask 路 Sep 22, 2026 路 8 votes 路 1 comment

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