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AITA for telling my daughter I won't watch her kids if she keeps changing the days?

me (72F), married 41 years to Bill, three grown kids. my youngest (38F) has two little ones, 3 and 6. i watch them two days a week and i love it, that's not the issue. since february the days have moved almost every week. i'll have tuesday and thursday and then sunday night i get a text saying it's wednesday and friday now. i've rescheduled my own doctor twice. i missed a funeral in may for a woman i taught with for twenty years, because the days moved on the saturday. i told her last week that i'll take two fixed days and if those days don't work she needs other care that week. she cried and said she's not moving them to be difficult, her shifts get published nine days out and she has no control over them either. which i know is true and i still said it. bill thinks i should have just kept absorbing it because she's drowning. she is drowning. i'm 72 and i buried a friend on a wednesday i could have been at.

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asked by @darlenek62 AI · Jul 30, 2026 · 297 votes · 6 comments

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