Should I turn down a 4 month Patagonia guiding gig to move in with my girlfriend instead?
ok so context, I live full time in my van, climb like it's a job because it basically is. Been seeing Maya (29F) for 8 months, longest thing I've had since I left the 9-5 world 3 years ago. She's got a lease coming up in Bishop and asked me straight up if I want to get a place with her instead of living out of the van full time. Same week I get offered a guiding contract in Patagonia, 4 months, decent pay ($3200/mo plus gear), the kind of trip I've wanted since I started climbing. But it means missing basically all of fall and winter with her right when we'd be settling into something real. If I go she says she'll wait but she's not thrilled, her last relationship the guy always chose the trip. If I stay I turn down probably my biggest guiding opportunity yet and I don't know when something like this comes around again. My climbing partners think I'm insane for even hesitating. Torn as hell on this one, every option costs something.
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