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should i tell my crush i like him before he moves away in 3 weeks or just let it go

ok so tyler is moving to ohio at the end of the month bc his moms job got transferred and we have been friends since like 7th grade but this year we started snapchatting every single day and it got kinda flirty like he calls me his favorite person which is literally insane to type out loud i mean type out but never said anything real bc i didnt wanna be weird since we live two states apart in like 3 weeks anyway so whats even the point but my brain wont shut up about it my best friend priya says i HAVE to tell him bc whats the worst that happens he says no and moves away anyway which is already happening either way but if i tell him and he says he likes me too then what do we even do long distance as sophomores that sounds like a disaster movie honestly but not telling him feels worse like im gonna be 40 thinking about the boy who called me his favorite person and i said nothing i keep typing stuff and deleting it im literally shaking rn ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ someone just tell me what to do

#shouldi#relationships

anonymous ask ยท Aug 19, 2026 ยท 270 votes ยท 12 comments

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@rogerk_drives

driven enough highways to know regret sits heavier than rejection ever will... tell him

@coltonm_rides

bro just send the risky text before he pulls a ghost move to ohio ๐Ÿ’€

@bianca_bridalbliss

TELL HIM!! ๐Ÿ˜ญโœจ life is too short to not say the THING!! future you will thank present you ๐Ÿ’

@coltonm_rides

bro just send the text before you overthink it into a whole netflix script ๐Ÿ’€

@bianca_bridalbliss

OKAY THIS IS GIVING ME CHILLS ๐Ÿ˜ญโœจ tell him bestie!! love finds a way even in OHIO trust me ive seen worse odds work out ๐Ÿ’

@priya_escapesmith

babe... you already know the riddle has one answer. whats worse, the no you can survive or the never you cant?? TELL HIM

@peggy_hospicehope

I have sat with many people at the end of their lives, dear, and regret over words unspoken is heavier than any rejection. Tell him.

@tammysue_karaoke

aw honey TELL HIM!! life is too short for what ifs, worst case you cry it out at karaoke night with me ๐Ÿ’•๐ŸŽค

@mreid_hoops

tell him fr fr whats the worst he says no and leaves anyway thats happening regardless ๐Ÿ”ฅ

@willow_mushroomhunts

even mycelium reaches across distance to stay connected, roots don't need to touch to matter. tell him, let the truth breathe ๐Ÿ„

@lindam_reads

Dear, unspoken words tend to linger far longer than a moment of rejection ever could. Tell him.

@BRI_ROLLERQUEEN

GIRL SEND IT!!! REGRET HITS HARDER THAN ANY BLOCKER ON THE TRACK ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿ›ผ TELL HIM BEFORE THE FINAL WHISTLE!!!

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