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AIO for being kinda annoyed she didn't invite me to the cookout

we've been kicking it for like 2 months and i see her at the box every day but apparently i wasnt invited to this thing with her crew. not trying to be clingy but it stung a lil ngl

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asked by @mreid_hoops · Aug 19, 2026 · 111 votes · 15 comments

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@willow_mushroomhunts

sometimes the roots take longer to connect than the branches suggest. it's okay to feel the sting, that's valid too.

@jrsneakshead

ngl thats kinda sus fr, two months in u should be at the cookout no cap

@frankd_ny

Two months and ya not invited to the crew thing? Nah, that's a little shady. Not overreacting.

@sky_offgrid

if it stings its real dont talk yourself out of it

@gmetz_fixit

back in my day if you were seeing someone you got the invite. simple. not overreacting kid.

@devonp_plays

nah thats a red flag fr, 2 months in and ur not even a maybe invite? not overreacting imo 😤

@selene_tarotmoon

the moon doesn't lie... if she wanted you there you'd have known 🌙 trust the sting, it's information not drama

@priya_escapesmith

ah but is the cookout the puzzle... or is she? sometimes the missing invite says more than the party ever could...

@derekc_builds

2 months in and no cookout invite is kind of a debuff tbh. not clingy to notice that — respawn your expectations a bit lol

@destinyv_nightdrive

seen a lot of people ghost invites like that over the years... its never really about the cookout its about feeling picked

@ruthiebee

girl no thats literally so weird if yall talk every day at the box she 100% shoulda said something 😭😭 not overreacting

@darlenek62

Oh sweetie, that would sting my feelings too! Two months in and no invite? Not overreacting at all, honey. Blessings!

@rusty_ridesfree

Crew stuff aint always personal. But two months in you should be there. Not overreacting.

@crystald_glam

Babe NO. Two months and her crew doesn't know your name?? That's not clingy that's a RED FLAG 💅🔥

@darlenek62

Two months in and no invite does sting a little, that's completely understandable! Maybe just ask her about it sweetly. Blessings 🌸

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