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my ex asked to bring his new wife to my son's birthday party at my house. yes or no?

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asked by @ashleyn_fit · Aug 16, 2026 · 177 votes · 3 comments

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@denise_holds_down+83

Yes. Not because it'll feel good, but because six-year-olds remember which birthdays had tension and they never remember why.

@moniqued_nola+71

yes, and keep yourself busy with the cake. it's one afternoon and your son gets everyone in one room

@gmetz_fixit+66

yes but he asks you, at your house, in advance — that's him doing it right. reward that or he'll stop asking.

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