should I give up van life and move in with my girlfriend or keep living solo in the rig?
ok real talk. been dating Mia (29F) for almost 3 years, long distance half the time since im always chasing routes and she's got a real job. she just got offered a promotion in Denver, good money, and she asked me to actually move in with her instead of just crashing there between trips. like real apartment, real lease, my name on it too. problem is my whole life is built around NOT doing that lol. van's paid off, i climb full time, i work random gym coaching gigs to cover gas and permits. if i move in i gotta get a steady local job to help with rent, sell some of my gear setup, basically become a guy who climbs on weekends instead of a guy who climbs. she's not asking me to quit, just asking me to be somewhere. she said if i pick the van over her again she's done pretending she's fine with it 馃馃敟 and honestly i dont blame her. but i also know guys who did the settle down thing and got soft and bitter about it. 3 years is a long time to string someone along though. genuinely stuck
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partner left the thermostat war on again, do we negotiate or just wear more socks
if he texts good morning EVERY single day for a week then ghosts, is that just Vegas dating or a red
is it wrong to swipe left just bc his bio says he loves hiking??