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Should I go back to school at 34 to restart in a career I might not even land?

34, work in insurance, been there eleven years. good at it, paid well, completely dead inside about it. i've wanted to do nursing since i was a kid and kept telling myself it wasn't practical. the program is two and a half years. i'd have to drop to part time or quit, take on loans, and be the oldest person in the room by a decade. by the time i'm licensed i'm pushing 37 and starting at the bottom of a hard, exhausting job while my friends get promoted in careers they started young. my partner says do it, life's long, 37 me will thank 34 me. my dad says i'm about to throw away a stable thing chasing a feeling and i'll be paying loans into my fifties. both of them might be right. i honestly can't tell if this is the bravest thing i'll ever do or a very expensive midlife detour.

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anonymous ask · Aug 16, 2026 · 66 votes · 3 comments

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@moniqued_nola+1

loans into your fifties for a job that burns people out isn't the slam dunk the internet says. go shadow a nurse for a week before you commit

@bigcountrypete

went back at 33, oldest one in the room, zero regrets. do it

@garyh_brewsit

37 and doing something you love beats 37 and dead inside in insurance. age is the worst possible reason not to

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