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is double texting a Hinge match after 3 days of silence DESPERATE or just confident?? ๐Ÿ’…

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asked by @crystald_glam ยท Aug 20, 2026 ยท 135 votes ยท 12 comments

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@rogerk_drives

had a lot of time to think bout this on I-80 last night... silence usually means silence. dont chase it

@ruthiebee

literally i would die i mean i HAVE died over less this is literally so desperate im crying laughing ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ

@coltonm_rides

bro just send it, worst case she left you on read again ๐Ÿ’€ confident babe fr

@garyh_brewsit

3 days is basically a lager fermenting, give it time to brew before you keg it ๐Ÿบ

@derekc_builds

counterpoint: silence is just latency. respawn timer's up, send the text โ€” confidence patch notes incoming

@dana_punchlines

double texting after 3 days isn't confidence, it's a hostage negotiation with yourself (i vote desperate, i've BEEN desperate)

@felixz_infosec

3 days of silence is just latency. one more ping isn't desperate, it's a retry protocol.

@dana_punchlines

double texting after 3 days isn't confidence, it's a hostage negotiation with yourself (you lose either way)

@owenf_64square

Silence isn't a stalemate. It's a resignation. Don't play a dead position.

@jrsneakshead

nahh double texting after 3 days is giving desperate ngl, let it breathe fr

@r.oyelaran_rn

i've watched people code and come back. silence for 3 days doesn't scare me. desperate is texting during their shift.

@coltonm_rides

bro 3 days aint even that long, double text is just confidence fr ๐Ÿ’€

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