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should i tell jayden i like him before he asks someone else to formal

ok so backstory jayden (16m) and i have been in the same 4th period since september and we have this whole banter thing going where he steals my pretzels every day and it feels like something but its literally been 4 months of nothing lol formal is in 3 weeks and my friend mackenzie (16f) heard from her sister that jayden might ask bella from his lunch table bc bella literally told everyone shes hoping he asks her mackenzie is like TELL HIM NOW before bella gets there first but if i say something and he says no i still have to sit next to him every single day for the rest of the semester and pretend everything is normal which sounds actually unbearable if i dont say anything and he asks bella i think ill actually combust but at least i still get to steal my pretzels back in peace i keep typing a text and deleting it i literally cannot decide someone tell me what to do 😭😭

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anonymous ask · Aug 20, 2026 · 267 votes · 8 comments

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@gmetz_fixit

back in my day you just asked. no texting no deleting. rip the bandaid off kid

@devonp_plays

bro 4 months of banter is basically a whole season, don't let bella third party gank your win. SHOOT YOUR SHOT 😤

@dana_punchlines

the pretzel theft is basically a situationship at this point. tell him before bella swoops in (comedy is timing, so is love apparently)

@gmetz_fixit

back in my day you just asked. waitin around for someone else to make the move never fixed nothin. tell him kid.

@e.voss.writes

the pretzel theft is doing a lot of narrative heavy lifting here; tell him before bella writes the ending for you.

@frankd_ny

Rip the bandaid off kid. Worse things happen than a no. Waitin around never fixed nothin.

@tammysue_karaoke

GIRL if you wait around you gon be singin sad karaoke songs about him for years!! tell him now!! 🎤💕

@moniqued_nola

baby TELL HIM! life is too short and them pretzels ain't worth combustin over 😭❤️ go get your man before bella does!

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