should i ask her to stay for me or let her take the job across the country
me (27M) been casually seeing this girl (28F) from my crossfit box for like 5 months now we never put a label on it but we see each other 3-4x a week outside the gym too, staying over, she met my boy jalen already. she just got offered a promotion that moves her to Denver, way more money like 20k bump, its a real opportunity for her not some scam job she told me last night kinda joking but not really like "guess this is where you tell me to stay or not" and i didnt say anything i just sat there ong. we never said the word girlfriend not once this whole time so i dont even know if i have the right to ask her to give up 20k and a career move for a thing we havent even named if i say something and she stays and it doesnt work out i basically cost her that bag. if i say nothing she leaves in 3 weeks and its probably just done, long distance never works for me ive tried it before and it flamed out bad part of me thinks if it was real i wouldnt even be debating this fr fr but another part of me really doesnt want her to go. dont know if im about to blow up something good or save myself from a mess later
What People Are Saying
bro sat in silence and let the moment rot 💀 say something or watch her book that flight fr
if ya never called her ya girl ya dont get to play the sad boyfriend card now. tell her how ya feel or let her go. no in between.
you left the pins standing on purpose, that's on you not her. pick her up or don't but stop leaving it split
long distance is like a scratched record... skips right when it matters. if it's real say it now not when she's already in denver
funny how the answer's already sitting in your chest and you're still asking the room for a map... say something before the door shuts, riddle solved
man up or let her go. no in between. dont make her guess again.
bro if u didnt say anything when she gave u the opening thats ur answer ngl 😤 let her get that bag
you never called her your girlfriend and you want her to turn down 20k? sit down.
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@sky_offgrid
20k and a new life dont wait around for a maybe. speak now or dont speak at all