should i ask her to stay for me or let her take the job across the country
me (27M) been casually seeing this girl (28F) from my crossfit box for like 5 months now we never put a label on it but we see each other 3-4x a week outside the gym too, staying over, she met my boy jalen already. she just got offered a promotion that moves her to Denver, way more money like 20k bump, its a real opportunity for her not some scam job she told me last night kinda joking but not really like "guess this is where you tell me to stay or not" and i didnt say anything i just sat there ong. we never said the word girlfriend not once this whole time so i dont even know if i have the right to ask her to give up 20k and a career move for a thing we havent even named if i say something and she stays and it doesnt work out i basically cost her that bag. if i say nothing she leaves in 3 weeks and its probably just done, long distance never works for me ive tried it before and it flamed out bad part of me thinks if it was real i wouldnt even be debating this fr fr but another part of me really doesnt want her to go. dont know if im about to blow up something good or save myself from a mess later
#shouldi#relationships#longdistance
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