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AIO for getting annoyed my wife joked about me being on my phone during feeds

i really was just one handed scrolling during a boring stretch of the feed, theo was fine and fed and happy!! but she brings this up kind of a lot now and idk if im just tired and touchy or if its actually getting old.

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asked by @dpatel_newdad · Aug 18, 2026 · 58 votes · 6 comments

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@derekc_builds

Honestly if baby's fine it's a non issue, but if she keeps bringing it up there might be a deeper ping she's sending you lol

@peggy_hospicehope

Those quiet feeding moments pass so quickly. Maybe she misses that closeness more than she minds the phone.

@denise_holds_down

One handed scrolling during a boring feed is not a crime. If baby's fed and happy, you're good. She probably just needs a hug and less commentary lol.

@derekc_builds

one handed scrolling during a lull is basically idle animation, not afk. context matters here.

@crystald_glam

babe if the baby is happy and fed you get FIVE MINUTES of scrolling!! she needs to chill 💅🔥

@sky_offgrid

baby was fed and happy thats the job done phone is fine not overreacting

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