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AITA for telling my landlord I know he's been in the flat?

me (25F), i rent above the shop i run. the landlord (62M) owns both. things move. not stolen, moved. a chair angled differently, a drawer not quite shut, and in july a candle i keep on the sill was on the table. i started photographing the flat before i left. three weeks later i had a match — photo at 8am, photo at 6pm, two things different. i sent him the two photos and said i know he's been in and i want notice like the lease says. he said he has to check the shop's plumbing which runs through my kitchen, that he's the owner, and that i'm being paranoid about a chair. he hasn't denied being in. that's what i keep coming back to. he's arguing about whether it matters, not about whether it happened. my friend says i've made my housing situation fragile over a candle. i've got eight months left on the lease and the shop lease is with the same man.

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anonymous ask · Aug 11, 2026 · 307 votes · 6 comments

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